If you’re looking for a BDSM accessory that will take your sex life to a new level of kinky, then the penis cage is worth considering. At first, some people might hesitate to try this because of its bold design and equally intimidating function. But using a penis cage can fulfill even your wildest erotic fantasies and bring about new thrilling sensations. And the best part is that anyone including beginners and amateurs can easily incorporate this wear-and-play device for a fun time. And if you’re already an experienced kinkster, then there are upgraded versions of penis cages that will push your comfort zone to your sweet limit.

What is a penis cage?

A penis cage, also known as a chastity cage, is a BDSM device used to lock one’s penis to prevent full erections or stop the person from using it during sex. Once it’s locked, the person can’t masturbate and reach orgasm, and the cage can only be taken out by the designated key holder.

In the field of BDSM, penis cages are commonly used in dominant/submissive relationships — where the submissive is the one with a penis and the dominant is the woman (or the other guy, in the case of queer relationships).

Why do some people love using a penis cage?

Putting on a chastity cage sounds so daring, and you’re probably wondering why some people love wearing one. Reasonings vary from one person to another, but here are a few of the most common explanations.

No Gender-Based Pressure

An age-old, outdated belief that still persists to this day is that men should be the active party during sex, while their partners — especially women — should remain passive. But many men want to break away from these traditional gender norms. Some of them would love to try what it’s like to be on the passive side, and a chastity cage lets them experience it.

When they put a cage on, they’re relinquishing their power and control to their partners. They can just sit back, relax, and receive pleasure. In a way, a chastity cage offers a liberating experience for men.

Stimulation of Other Body Parts

The penis may be the primary erogenous zone of any man, but that doesn’t mean one can get an orgasm only by stimulating this organ. There are other body parts that will sexually excite a man, and wearing a cage over his penis will be able to help train him and his partner to take advantage of the other erogenous zones.

If your lover wears one during sex, feel free to stimulate him by kissing and touching his nipples, thighs, and other spots outside of his genital area. Doing so will make foreplay more exciting and memorable.

Female Empowerment

For women, introducing a penis cage into a bedroom can be a revitalizing exercise in owning our sexual power. For so long, women’s pleasure has been considered secondary to male pleasure. Some of us have even had to fake orgasms during intercourse. When your partner wears a penis cage, he gets to focus less on his own satisfaction and ejaculation. Instead, the spotlight is on you.

What are the different types of penis cages?

Silicone Cages

Silicone is a relatively soft and adaptable material — molding it to a particular shape is an easy task, and that’s why it’s a popular choice for penis cages. Silicone cages are also beloved by people in the BDSM community because wearing one feels comfortable — some wearers even put it on under regular clothing — and it’s pretty affordable. It also helps that it’s easy to maintain — you can clean it even without taking it off.

However, a silicone cage has its cons, and the biggest one is its elasticity. While the elasticity makes for a comfortable experience, it also inhibits complete compulsion. In other words, silicone can allow the wearer to have an erection and even orgasm — it focuses more on the visual experience and psychological turn-on rather than actual physical restriction.

That said, silicone cages are still highly recommended, especially for beginners.

Hard Plastic Cages

This type of penis cage is easy to clean and it’s also inconspicuous — a person can theoretically wear one and pass through airport security without any problem.

The downside of this type of cage is that its stability is slightly lower, which means it can easily break and possibly injure the wearer.

Ironically enough, its low stability can be a good thing sometimes, especially during emergency situations. For example, let’s say you lost the key to the cage or the lock got stuck — there’s no need to panic because you simply have to use pliers or even scissors to pry the cage open. And if you were careful when cutting the bolts, there’s a possibility that you can still reuse the cage afterward.

Metal Cages

Metal cages are best suited for people who want the maximum restriction. The cool metal is unyielding, unlike silicone and even hard plastic, so it really serves its purpose well.

When a person wears it, getting sexually stimulated can cause a bit of pain, so they have to work hard to reduce sexual desire. The dom in this situation will be clever enough to tease their submissive partner until they can’t take it any longer.

Cages With a Catheter or Dilator

This type of penis cage is perfect for more prolonged use since it has a catheter, a soft hollow tube attached to the penis that allows the wearer to urinate or eject some semen if needed.

It can also have a dilator, which is a feature that spreads open the urethra. Because of this, this kind of cage is perfect for people who want to try urethra sounding, the practice of inserting an object (like glass, metal, fluid) into the urethra to enhance sexual pleasure.

Cages with a catheter or dilator can induce pain to stir up lust and require sterilization for safe usage, and that’s why they’re only recommended for experienced BDSM practitioners.

How does one put on a penis cage?

Putting on a cock cage is a pretty simple process — and there are two methods you can try to help your partner.

Method #1: Regular Method

• 1. First, apply a lubricant on the entire flaccid penis and testicles. Then, slip the ring over the cock and behind the scrotum — once this is done, the ring is against the body.
• 2. Put the cage over the limp penis, then make sure the locking pins and holes line up. Once the pins and holes are aligned, connect them.
• 3. Lock the chastity cage with a padlock.

Method #2: Modified Stocking Method

Sometimes, a few people struggle to put on the cage using the regular method. The most common issue is the penis not going all the way to the tip of the cage, which is a problem because the penis has to be close to the opening so that you can urinate easily. If you encounter this hiccup, then you might want to try this other method.

• 1. Find a stocking to use — a knee-high stocking is preferable, but you can improvise using a thigh-high stocking or pantyhose (just make sure to cut it to the size of a men’s over-the-calf sock). Then, fold the cuff of the stocking down until it lines up with the other end.
• 2. Slide the folded stocking over the head and shaft of the penis.
• 3. Slide the ring of the cage over the base of the penis and testicles, then place the cage over the penis. Pull the toe and cuff of the stocking through the urine hole or lower opening. Then, lock the cage.
• 4. Once the cage is locked and secure, gently pull the stocking from the cage. Doing so will move the head of the penis toward the bottom of the cage. After the penis is comfortably situated, you can remove the stocking from the cage.

How do I use a penis cage?

There are various ways to use a cock cage in the bedroom. Here are a few suggested plays that you can try out.

• Erotic humiliation. Simply put, this roleplay involves one person humiliating their partner to stir up lust. Perhaps, you can have a roleplay where your partner does something “bad,” and you have to punish them by caging their penis and teasing them until they’re begging for release.
• Restraint play. If you’d like to get into restraint play using the cage, you might want to use other restraints as well. So, your partner will be bound, blindfolded, and suspended — on top of their cock being locked away. As the dominant, you get to stimulate them however you wish, and since they can’t move, they’ll just be anticipating what you’re going to do next.

Our Recommendations

Are you willing to try incorporating a chastity cage into your next play session? If so, you need to find a high-quality cage. Here are our top picks for you.

Obei Cage Metal Chastity Cage Kit 50 mm

Made from solid metal, the Obei Cage Metal Chastity Cage Kit 50 mm features an open bars design that fully embraces the shaft. The padlock and key are also included in this product.

Obei Cager Metal Chastity Cage Kit 45 mm

The Obei Cager Metal Chastity Cage Kit 45 mm is made of stainless steel, so it feels compact and durable when you touch it. The design is also user-friendly, so it’s easy to figure out how to use this device.

Obei Classic Silicone Chastity Cage Kit

Since the Obei Classic Silicone Chastity Cage Kit is made from premium silicone material, you can expect it to feel soft to the touch. It’s also flexible, so the wearer won’t be uncomfortable once they put it on. If you’re traveling soon, you can easily pack this toy in your luggage because it’s lightweight.

Obei Boner Metal Chastity Cage Kit 52 mm

Featuring a bold and daring design, the Obei Boner Metal Chastity Cage Kit 52 mm will add an extra layer of sultriness to the bedroom. Additionally, it’s made of stainless steel, so it’s incredibly durable.

Obei Boner Metal Chastity Cage Kit 48 mm

Sturdy and durable, the Obei Boner Metal Chastity Cage Kit 48 mm is a great addition to your BDSM collection because it will last long. It also doesn’t weigh much — just about 230 grams — so you can easily bring this with you when you go on a romantic escapade with your partner.

Frequently Asked Questions

Why do men like putting their penises inside cages?

Men who put their penises inside cages like it because the idea of submitting their control to their partner is sexually arousing. Wearing a cage also lets them delay their orgasms, so by the time it hits them, it’s even more mind-blowing and intense than what they’ve usually experienced.

How do I make sure that my partner is comfortable wearing a penis cage?

One of the best ways you can do to ensure your partner’s comfort is by communicating with them. Ask them what kind of cage they prefer — silicone, hard plastic, or metal — and discuss what roleplay you’ll be doing. Once all is said and done, you two should establish a safe word so that any time your partner feels uncomfortable, you can easily stop the act.

Are there any bad effects of using a penis cage?

There are no studies that suggest that using a penis cage has a negative effect on the wearer. That said, the chances of getting injured are high if you wear a penis cage too small for you and you wear that too-small cage for a long period of time.

How do I properly take care of or maintain a penis cage?

There’s no hard and fast rule when it comes to cleaning and maintaining a penis cage because of the many variations of this device. However, a good rule of thumb is to use soap, warm water, and a cloth or cotton bud. You can also use a specific sex toy cleaner if you have one. Before you begin to clean, separate the individual parts of the cage first.

If you want to be extra safe, you can sterilize the cage by placing it in boiling water. This is only applicable to metal cages, though, because plastic and other materials may get damaged when exposed to high temperatures.

Did you know?

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