Condoms
It’s a ritual in the smoldering heat of passion: Your eyes staring into his. Your fingers stroking the length of his shaft. You slowly unfurl the condom over his penis with your mouth, your tongue darting in and out as he groans— What does pleasure taste like? Make your story below!
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Better latex than never: How you and your partner can get a bang out of using condoms
Do you wish condoms weren’t so awkward to use? We got you covered.
You’ve probably seen people frown upon condoms and how they’re very awkward to use. But that doesn’t have to be the case!
In simple terms, a male condom is a thin pouch that collects semen from the penis. And believe it or not, it’s been around to foster sexual health for very long—about 13,000 years.
Early Asian civilizations got down and dirty on animal horns and intestines, even tortoise shells. Condoms even made a Renaissance in Italy through chemical-soaked and ribboned linen, though they left much to be desired.
Fortunately for our generation, modern condoms are mostly made out of latex for the pleasure of men and women alike.
The condom is now one of the most accessible ways of preventing pregnancy and STDs. It’s one of the most reliable ones too. Planned Parenthood says it’s 98% effective when used correctly. Otherwise, its effectiveness drops to 85%.
So here are five simple steps to make it count:
- Check it out. Don’t tear through it right away. Inspect the expiry date, the packaging, and the condom itself. Be careful in opening it!
- Don’t rush it. If you want to keep things intense, this is a crucial step. Get creative in incorporating it into foreplay instead of cramming it in the end. Lube, anyone?
- Let it roll. Pinch the condom’s rim before covering the entire shaft of the erect penis. Slowly and seductively does it! Pull the foreskin back first for the uncircumcised.
- Get it on. Proceed with gusto, and never remove the condom while you’re at it.
- Clean it up. When you’re finished with one round, keep one hand on the tip while you’re pulling it off the hard penis. Never reuse condoms!
When it comes to birth control, there’s nothing sexier than playing it safe. Why not indulge in NOTI’s condoms for your sexual well-being?
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Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
How effective are condoms in preventing pregnancy?
As per Planned Parenthood, condoms are 98% effective if you use them correctly. That means you should rolling it all the way down the shaft of the penis, as well as using a new one for every penetration. Otherwise, the effectiveness drops to about 85%.
Can condoms prevent the spread of STDs?
Yes, but not always. Condoms are effective against STDs spread through bodily fluids (e.g. chlamydia, gonorrhea). Unfortunately, they’re not much protection against those contracted via skin-to-skin contact (e.g. genital herpes, syphilis).
How can I check if a condom is safe to use?
Before using a condom, check for three things. Ensure you’re not using it past its expiration date. See to it that the packaging is not damaged in any way. And make sure that the condom itself isn’t torn, dry, or sticky.
Can I reuse a condom?
No! You have to use a new condom every time you have sex, and this includes every single time you and your partner switch it up in one session—for instance, swinging from vaginal to anal sex. Not doing so will result in breakage, slippage, or leakage.
Won’t using condoms ruin the moment for me and my partner?
A lot of people say they don’t like using condoms because putting it on is an awkward interruption during their good time. But this doesn’t have to be the case! Get creative by incorporating the latex in your foreplay, and you’d be surprised.
The Big O stands for orgasm, but it might as well be the hormone oxytocin. It’s known as the “cuddle hormone” because it’s associated with feelings of bonding and attachment with another person. Plus, you get a heady dose of dopamine, the feel-good hormone that makes you crave more.
There are many ways, but it all boils down to two things: knowing what you want and communicating it to your partner. Don’t be afraid to explore your sexuality and what makes you feel good. And let your partner know what you found out—now that’s sexy!
Yes, it’s possible for women to have multiple orgasms. Some even experience having orgasms back-to-back, with just seconds in between each climax. This is because women don’t experience a refractory period after orgasm like men do, during which they are unable to become aroused or experience another orgasm. But, if you’ve never had multiple orgasms, there’s no need to worry! Individual sexual experiences vary widely and past studies suggest only about 15% of women experience this phenomenon.
Many would try to dictate how long sex should last for it to be great, but really, there’s no hard and fast rule to this. Whether you’ve just had a quickie or you were up all night, what matters more is if the experience was pleasurable for you.
Kegel exercises could tighten your pelvic floor muscles, which wrap around your reproductive system. This can help improve your sexual performance, among many other health benefits. They’re also best practiced with Kegel balls!
If you’re asking this question, that alone should be cause for alarm, because sex shouldn’t hurt. Applying lube before penetration might help soothe the pain, especially when your vagina doesn’t self-lubricate as much. But if the symptom persists, it might be best to consult a doctor.
First of all, it’s important to remember that there is no “right” or “normal” level of libido, as everyone’s sex drive is different. There are several potential reasons why you feel your libido might be lower than usual, including physical factors such as hormonal imbalances, medication side effects, or underlying health conditions and also psychological factors such as stress and anxiety.
That said, there are several things you can do to help increase your libido, like prioritizing your self-care to reduce stress and communicating with your partner. Why not try experimenting with new forms of intimacy with a sensual massage or playing sexy games? There are also sexual enhancers, such as arousal gels, that can help boost your sexual experience. If nothing changes, you could also speak with your healthcare provider about your low libido.
