You feel hands all over you, caressing your skin and squeezing your thighs. You feel lips skimming the sensitive skin on your neck, a slight bite on your shoulder. You reach out but can only move your fingers. You strain, but your hands stay above your head. Ahhh. The sweet torture of being handcuffed to the bed. What can you do?

Handcuffs are an excellent choice for people interested in exploring the world of bondage and power play. If you desire to give up control, being handcuffed can bring the ultimate high of allowing yourself to be subject to another person's whims. What will they do to you? Will they tease you, kiss you all over, take you from behind? All you can do is wait, beg, and writhe in blissful agony.

Or if you're more of a girlboss in bed, handcuffing will give you the control that you crave. Using cuffs would free your hands to do more pleasurable things besides making your partner stay in place.

What are bondage handcuffs?

Bondage handcuffs are equipment that is designed for restraining. They are made up of two, often circular, enclosures connected by a hinge or a chain and are meant to secure the wrists. Once the wrists are trapped in place, the cuffs are closed and locked.

Handcuffs are often used in bondage play. This is when one partner (the dominant or dom) physically restrains another (the submissive or sub) using tools or props to evoke sexual suspense. This type of play revolves around power dynamics and control.

The idea is that once they are in place, the sub will not be able to remove the cuffs nor freely move their arms. These toys limit the movement, making any task a bit more challenging, if not impossible. The sub can only move as far as the link or chain allows. And the only way out of it is if the dom decides to free the sub's hands.

What are the different types of handcuffs?

When the word "handcuffs" is mentioned, the metal ones that police use to restrain suspects usually come to mind. However, in the world of BDSM, handcuffs come in a wider variety. Check out these different types to see which ones will fit your play requirements.

Metal Cuffs

There are three types of handcuffs that are made of metal. The first one is the chain cuff. For this one, the metal enclosures are held together by a chain. Chain cuffs may be the most familiar-looking type because they are the kind that law enforcement officers use.

The next one is the hinged cuff. Hinged cuffs are quite similar to chain cuffs, except the enclosures are attached by a hinge instead of a chain. The hinge allows for less movement than the chain.

The last one is the rigid handcuffs. This kind uses a solid metal bar to hold the enclosures together. While these restraints are the most stable, allowing for the least mobility, they are also the hardest ones to carry around because they can't be folded.

Metal cuffs bring an element of danger into your play. They're very durable, so even individuals who are quite strong cannot break out of them. However, these cuffs are often not designed for BDSM and can cause a lot of damage if used improperly. Plus, if you lose the keys, they're rendered useless.

Leather handcuffs

Of the different types of cuffs available out there, the leather ones are best suited for sexual bondage. These wide wrist restraints are made of real or faux leather and fastened by a locking mechanism, velcro, or a buckle. Some are lined or padded with fur or softer leather. The enclosures may be attached to each other or another object.

More complex leather bondage handcuffs come with extra buckles or are fitted with D-ring attachments so that other equipment may be connected to them.

Plastic Restraints

Plastic restraints can come in an array of styles. They can be plastic replicas of metal handcuffs or disposable types of wrist restraints (also known as zip ties). These handcuffs are not meant for long-term use, so they're very inexpensive. They may be good for those who simply want to see if handcuffing is a kink they want to explore.

It is important to note that while they may break easier, these plastic cuffs can still inflict soft tissue or nerve damage when worn improperly.

What are the benefits of using handcuffs in bed?

There are a number of compelling reasons why you should explore the use of handcuffs in your bedroom romps. These are just a few:

• Using handcuffs brings something new to the bedroom. Trying out bondage adds that thrill of dominating or submitting. It introduces power play into your usual routine. So, if you're feeling extra adventurous and craving for something new, adding these bondage bracelets into the mix may be that something that can reignite your passion.
• Handcuffs are not as intimidating as other BDSM equipment. Other BDSM tools and equipment, like a flogger or ball stretchers, can be a little daunting to a newbie. Handcuffs are not designed to inflict pain, so they are a little less intimidating. Even those who are not into the BDSM lifestyle may have already experimented with restraints beforehand, so getting cuffed to a bed is not such a big leap.
• Handcuffs are generally affordable. If you are still exploring restraint play, you may not want to invest in all the equipment only to find out it's not something you're into. So, getting a fairly affordable pair of these BDSM accessories will not make your wallet weep should you decide that getting restrained isn't for you.
• Bondage encourages people to drop their inhibitions. Using restraints brings a feeling of liberation. It gives the wearer the feeling of helplessness to just accept what the dom will dole out. And having that power over another may encourage the dom to try out new things.

How do I choose the perfect bondage handcuffs?

While all handcuffs serve the same purpose, each one comes in a slightly different form and offers something unique. They can come in a variety of forms and materials. Choosing one will mainly be based on individual preferences. Here are some questions that can guide you in choosing the right pair:

What is the size of the wearer's wrists?

Check out our store, and you will see that most handcuffs are adjustable. However, certain cuffs can only fit around a certain range of wrist sizes. If the wearer has large or small wrists, you might need to check if a particular pair of handcuffs can accommodate them. So, just to be sure, it is best to know the wearer's measurements so you don't accidentally buy something that's ill-fitting.

How comfortable is the wearer about the idea of being restrained?

For those who are just starting out with BDSM, getting cuffed and being unable to move can be an uncomfortable experience. Being handcuffed to the bedpost for a long time may even cause anxiety. In this case, the best handcuffs are ones that can easily be removed. Choosing a pair with velcro fastenings may let the wearer relax to the idea of being immobilized because of the availability of the choice to self-remove.

For those who are quite experienced with this type of play, choosing a highly restrictive pair that's difficult to remove could be the way to go.

What is your aesthetic?

The appearance of the handcuffs will also matter. Do you want a pair that goes with your favorite bodysuit, collar, or whip? Do you want one in the wearer's favorite color? Are you fond of the badass leather look or the dainty furry kind?

You should also consider getting a bondage set so the ankle cuff, wrist cuff, and collar all match.

What type of play are you into?

Another consideration is what kind of activities do you enjoy and how will it involve the use of handcuffs. If the dom plans to move the partner around a lot, a thin cuff may not withstand all that tugging. Plus, it will dig into the sub's wrists, making the experience extra painful. If that's what you're into, then all's good. If not, then it's best to get a pair of thick leather cuffs.

If your sexual adventures result in a lot of bodily fluids, getting something resistant to liquids may be ideal. It is going to be hard to clean those furry handcuffs if they get soaked in sweat.

If the sub is going to be wearing the cuffs for an extended period, fur-lined or soft leather handcuffs may be the best choice.

Does your fantasy involve hooking the sub to a long chain? Or does it involve hogtying? Then you need to get handcuffs with attachment points. These extra features make the cuff more versatile.

How do I safely use handcuffs?

Handcuffs are generally safe to use. However, to prevent even the unlikeliest incidents and avoidable injuries, it is best to take some safety precautions.

Buy handcuffs that are meant for BDSM use

If you want to avoid any injuries and pain, it is best to use handcuffs that are actually designed for BDSM play. Using ones like what the police use to restrain suspects can cut up circulation and cause nerve and tissue damage, especially if the cuffs are put on too tightly. If you're used to putting on this type, then you can go for that metal option. However, if you're a newbie, it is best to stick to what's tried and tested.

Safety first

You can never be too cautious when you're getting restrained or restraining someone. Choose a safeword before anything else. You and your partner should talk about what you're comfortable with and what your limits are. Think of what can happen and prepare for that. If you are using a pair of lockable handcuffs, keep the keys somewhere you can easily access. If possible, keep a spare key on hand. And never leave a restrained person alone.

Try out the positions beforehand

There are a number of positions that the sub can be put into. Try them out before putting on the restraints. It is important that the position is comfortable. Note that some positions can start out comfortable but can get progressively painful the longer the sessions are. It is best to keep that in mind to avoid any injuries.

Top handcuffs from NOTI

Are you now more confident in choosing the perfect handcuffs to bring your sexual adventure to the next level? If so, then you might want to check out these stunning accessories available in our shop.

Obei Guide Me Real Leather Handcuffs

The Guide Me handcuffs are made from supple leather material. This is a stunning piece of equipment that will surely bring sophistication into your play sessions. The leather is black with an eye-catching red lining. The enclosures come with adjustable straps to ensure the perfect fit. Plus, the gold-colored chain that connects the two cuffs is beautiful and pretty durable, ensuring that the wearer stays put.

Obei Bound to Tease Real Leather Handcuffs

This all-black and gold pair of handcuffs will make any submissive look deliciously helpless. The enclosures are made with soft leather that comes with adjustable straps, so you can make it fit any wrist size. This pair only weighs 240 grams, so it is ideal for long use. The wearer can even keep this on while sleeping without any strain. Secure the cuffs to each other or on the headboard. Your imagination is the limit.

Obei Bound to Explore Leather Handcuffs

This pair is slightly thinner than the Obei Bound to Tease but still features a rich leather and gold look. The straps are easily adjustable so that you can tighten or loosen them depending on the size of the wrist. The cuffs are lightweight and very portable, so you can bring your restraint play anywhere you go.

Bijoux Indiscrets Silky Sensual Handcuffs

If you're more into soft bondage, these silky soft handcuffs from Bijoux Indiscrets are a perfect choice. The ribbons offer endless bondage possibilities. Tie the hands together or loop the ribbons around the bedpost, the choice is all up to you (and your partner, of course). You can even safely use these restraints on the ankles.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I use handcuffs during playtime?

You can add restraints to any of your usual bedroom adventures. Any experience can be intensified with the addition of a pair of handcuffs. Reenact a movie scene where the wearer is the captive, and you are the villain. Tease your partner by handcuffing them to the bed, then play with yourself. Watch as your partner strives and fails to join in. The options are endless.

How do I care for and maintain my handcuffs?

The procedure would depend on your handcuffs' material. For leather enclosures with metal chains or hinges, remove the metal parts first. Wipe the leather with a damp cloth (you can use soap or a leather cleaner if needed). Do not submerge the cuffs in water. Once they are clean, wipe the surface with a soft dry cloth, then leave them to air dry away from direct sunlight.

Velcro, fur, and plastic cuffs, as well as the chains of your leather handcuffs, can be gently washed with soap and water. Wipe them dry with a soft cloth and hang them to dry.

Place the fully dried toys in their original pouches before storing them in a dry place like your cabinet or drawer.

Did you know?

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