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BDSM Sets

Get your first glimpse of the kinky life with a BDSM set.

BDSM is a broad category with countless toys and accessories, but fortunately, with BDSM sets, you can collect several toys with just one purchase.

Everyone is always looking for ways to spice up their sex life, and if you’re one of these people, one of the things you hear when you ask for tips from friends or Google is to dip your toes into BDSM.

But what exactly is BDSM?

BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. As a collective, it refers to a wide variety of erotic practices that add excitement to the bedroom, such as roleplaying, sensory deprivation, pain play, erotic humiliation, edgeplay, and more.

The common thread that ties all these practices together is the presence of power exchange. In BDSM, one partner is considered the dominant, who gets to control how things go in the bedroom, while the other is the submissive, the one who willingly gives away their control.

What is a BDSM set?

Simply put, a BDSM set comes with several toys and accessories that are commonly used during bondage play. In a way, it’s like a sampler of kinky toys.

Naturally, this set is primarily targeted toward beginners. It can serve as your gateway into BDSM, giving you an overview of different erotic practices and allowing you to experiment with a variety of toys.

That isn’t to say that this wondrous collection is only for the uninitiated. Even if you’re the kinkiest person in the world, there’s still a BDSM set for you. Sets vary in terms of the toys and accessories included, and some of them feature items that only advanced kinksters know of.

What are the benefits of buying a BDSM set?

There are several advantages that come with buying a bondage set. The following are the most common ones.

It’s convenient and cost-effective.

When you purchase a set, you get several toys and accessories in one go. This makes things convenient for you, especially if you’re planning to grow your BDSM collection but you’re also on a budget.

Additionally, if you’re a beginner, the set has already done the thinking and consideration for you. Before the existence of bondage sets, you have to deliberate really hard on which kinky toys you want to start with and which accessory combinations are worth trying. But with a set, all the items you want are bundled together, so all you and your partner have to do is decide what play you’re doing later.

It allows you to be creative.

Another great thing about bondage kits is that they come in a wide variety. Some kits contain certain accessories, while others feature unique toys that will inspire kinkier acts in the bedroom.

Because of all this, you and your partner can purchase multiple sets if you want to experiment further. BDSM kits inspire growth and creativity in your sex life, and isn’t that a wonderful thing?

It’s aesthetically pleasing.

Since the accessories come from the same set, they all feature matching designs, resulting in an aesthetically pleasing appearance. After all, setting the mood can be very important in BDSM, especially during roleplay activities.

It’s a great gift.

Have you already given your partner the typical gifts like watches, jewelry, or jewelry? Why not surprise your partner with a BDSM kit? It’s especially a great idea if they’ve been expressing the desire to try BDSM with you someday or if they’re trying to expand their collection.

What toys and tools can you find in BDSM sets?

Bondage kits vary in the number and kinds of components included. Most manufacturers go for the lucky number of seven items, but other sets will have eight or more. There are also others that might only feature less than seven toys and accessories, especially if the sets are meant to be on the more affordable side.

That said, we can give you an overview of the most commonly included accessories. They are the following:

  • Mask. An accessory that people wear on their faces during sex. It’s primarily used during sensory deprivation, or for dressing up for role plays.
  • Blindfold. A leveled-up version of the mask. Placed over your eyes or your partner’s, the blindfold is used to hinder the sense of sight, which will then help in heightening all the other senses.
  • Gag. This is placed over or in your mouth, and it’s typically worn by a submissive during bondage play. There are various kinds of gags, such as ball gags, bit gags, and cleave gags.
  • Handcuffs and/or ankle cuffs. These go to your wrists and ankles — they restrict your movements, putting you at the mercy of your partner. These accessories are popular in power plays between a dominant and submissive.
  • Collar. An accessory worn especially by the submissive around their neck to indicate their role in the BDSM relationship. Sometimes attached to a leash, it’s also used in several kinky roleplays, such as power play and erotic humiliation.
  • Tickler. This is used for sensation play — it grazes the skin to stimulate nerve endings, thus keeping you on the edge of your seat.
  • Whip. This is for people who like to feel some level of pain during sex. It’s commonly used to inflict pain by spanking, but there are milder uses for the whip as well, such as stroking and tickling.

Our Recommendations

Are you interested in trying one out for yourself? Here are a few recommendations that you can check out.

Obei Restrain Me Plush Neck Pillow with Hand and Ankle Cuff Set Black

The Obei Restrain Me Plush Neck Pillow with Hand and Ankle Cuff Set Black balances restraint with comfort. Featuring a soft, thick neck pillow connected to plush hand and ankle cuffs with durable nylon straps, this set is perfect for those looking to experiment with bondage play.

Obei Bound to Tease Real Leather Bondage Set

The Obei Bound to Tease Real Leather Bondage Set contains all the essentials for BDSM play: leather collar and lead chain, blindfold, and shackles. Made with real leather that will last for years, this is perfect for those people who want to invest in a high-quality bondage kit for a next-level bedroom plays.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I use the BDSM set?

The simple answer to this question is that it’s actually up to you. There are no hard-and-fast rules when it comes to bondage play — you and your partner are free to do whatever and experiment with different scenarios and plays. Maybe you’d like to try out sensory deprivation using the blindfold. Or if you’re feeling adventurous, you can try out being restrained.

To make the most of the situation, our sexpert advice is to use multiple accessories at the same time. For example, restrain your partner while you use the tickler to stimulate their erogenous zones. Or maybe use a whip instead of a tickler. The possibilities are endless!

Are there any precautions I should know before using the BDSM set?

BDSM scenes can get pretty intense, so it’s important to consider your safety and comfort before doing anything else. To achieve this, you and your partners should first provide clear consent and boundaries. A simple verbal agreement can work, but you can even lay out these boundaries in the form of a contract if you want the extra layer of security.

Another good practice that you and your partner must practice is establishing a safe word. If one of you suddenly gets uncomfortable at any point in the play, you can utter the word to stop the current act.

Remember: consent is always a key component in BDSM relationships.

How do I pick the right BDSM set for my partner and me?

BDSM sets come in different sizes and prices, so you might have a hard time figuring out which one to buy. If that’s the case, you can consider a few factors to help you decide.

Choose a set with the most number of accessories if you want to try as many kinky acts as possible. But if you’re on a budget, start with a more affordable set.

Also, consider the material quality of the accessories. You don’t want them to break easily because you might get injured if that happens. One thing you can do to ensure that the material is of high quality is to buy from legitimate sex toy shops, such as NOTI.ph.

Did you know…?

BDSM sets are actually available in the Philippines — thanks to our sex shop! Here at NOTI.ph, we believe that all women should have the chance to explore their sexuality without guilt or stigma. That’s why we aim to offer as many adult accessories as possible, and that includes BDSM sets.

If you want to check out our stock, you can find the famed accessories under the “BDSM Sets” catalog on our site.

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