So, you have embarked on a journey to explore new territories and push boundaries in the world of BDSM. Perhaps you've dabbled in impact play, experimented with restraints, and now you crave something more. You want to add a new level of excitement and intensity to your scenes, without necessarily delving into the more extreme aspects of BDSM. This is where BDSM accessories come into play.

Think about the sensual feeling of latex against your skin, the tight grip of a collar around your neck, or the rush of being blindfolded and at the mercy of your partner. These extras can truly enhance the pleasure, intensity, and power dynamics of your scenes, making them truly unforgettable experiences. So, gear up, and let's dive into the world of BDSM accessories where you can add an extra layer of sensory stimulation and aesthetics to your play.

What are BDSM accessories?

BDSM accessories are the little extras that make your play even hotter. They make scenes seem sexier and you feel more attractive and confident. Those small things add to the overall experience. Think collars, masks, latex suits — all those naughty additions that you can wear.

While the definition of what constitutes as a BDSM accessory is subjective, in general, they're considered complementary items to BDSM play, not essential to the act itself. Nipple clamps, for example, can be seen as both accessories and equipment — serving both a complementary and functional role in BDSM. Unlike equipment, such as floggers and paddles, which are used to deliver sensations and impact, BDSM accessories serve a more psychological and aesthetic purpose.

By putting on these sexy accessories, you can up the ante, intensify the power dynamic, and create unforgettable experiences with your partner.

What BDSM accessories are out there?

There's a whole world of BDSM accessories to discover and enjoy. In this section, we'll explore some of the most popular and widely used BDSM accessories and what makes each one special.

Eye Masks and Blindfolds

These items are used to add to the sensory experience during play, often by limiting the wearer's vision and heightening their other senses. Blindfolds and masks can also be used to create a sense of vulnerability and surrender, adding to the power dynamics of the scene. So, if you're looking to add a little extra excitement to your BDSM play, don't underestimate the power of a simple blindfold or mask!

Collars

Collars in BDSM play add a sense of ownership and submission, serving as a symbol of the power dynamic between partners. They can also be used as a form of restraint and add to the overall aesthetic of the scene. Collars are a staple accessory in BDSM, with a variety of styles available to suit different preferences. Whether it's a simple leather collar or a more elaborate piece adorned with spikes or other hardware, collars enhance the experience and take it to the next level of naughty.

Mouth Gags

​​Mouth gags add a touch of domination and submission to BDSM play, ramping up the intensity and power dynamics. The act of gagging a partner can evoke feelings of vulnerability, surrender, and trust. Whether it's a simple ball gag or a more elaborate harness-style gag, the use of a mouth gag can bring a naughty twist to any BDSM scene.

Nipple clamps and Nipple Covers

Nipple clamps and covers are definitely must-haves in any BDSM collection. These little extras can take your play to the next level, adding a delicious mix of pain and pleasure to the equation. Not to mention, the added allure of perky, sensitive nipples can add an extra dose of sexiness to any scene. Whether you're looking for a gentle pinch or a more intense squeeze, these accessories are perfect for nipple play enthusiasts. And if you want to add a touch of kink to your look, nipple covers and pasties can be the perfect finishing touch.

Fetish Outfits

Fetish wear refers to clothing items designed to cater to certain fetishes, such as latex, PVC, and leather outfits. These pieces are designed to heighten the sensory and aesthetic elements of BDSM play. The tightness, texture, and shine of fetish wear can add to the overall experience, intensifying the power dynamic and making the wearer feel extra alluring. Whether it's a figure-hugging latex catsuit or a dominatrix-style leather outfit, fetish wear can help individuals fully embrace their roles and add to the overall excitement of a BDSM scene

Roleplay Costumes

Roleplay costumes are attire specifically designed for enacting a particular fantasy or scenario in BDSM play. They range from masquerade masks and simple lingerie to elaborate costumes, such as a nurse, police officer, or schoolgirl outfits. Wearing these costumes can help individuals fully immerse themselves in a role, creating a more intense and believable experience. Whether you're playing the dominant or submissive role, a well-crafted costume can heighten the excitement, increase the level of submission, and make for a steamy and unforgettable scene.

What safety precautions should I consider when using BDSM accessories?

Playing with BDSM accessories is all about balancing safety and kinky fun. So, always remember the mantra "Safety First, Kinky Fun Second". Whether you're a seasoned player or just starting out, it's crucial to prioritize your well-being and that of your partner.

That means taking the time to think about hygiene, comfort, and consent before diving into any kinky play. To make sure everyone involved has a good time, here are some important things to keep in mind:

• Cleanliness is key: Always wash your BDSM accessories before and after use to prevent the spread of bacteria. If you're sharing any toys that go inside the body, make sure to use a fresh condom every time. This adds an extra layer of protection and makes cleaning afterwards a breeze.
• Safety words are a must: Establishing a "safe word" or signal beforehand is crucial for BDSM play. This will allow you and your partner(s) to stop the scene if anyone gets uncomfortable or needs a break.
• Know your limits: It's important to communicate with your partner(s) and establish boundaries before any BDSM play. Make sure everyone is comfortable with the level of intensity, and that you have a plan in case things go too far.

By following these simple guidelines, you'll be able to enjoy BDSM play with your accessories safely and hygienically.

How do I use BDSM accessories in my sex play?

Whether you want to explore power dynamics, heighten your senses, or role play your wildest fantasies, these accessories are the perfect way to turn up the heat.

Turn off the lights and turn up the touch

Blindfolds and eye masks add an extra layer of sensory deprivation, making every touch and sensation even more intense. For example, your partner might blindfold you and then use a feather tickler to stimulate different parts of your body.

Who's the boss?

Establish your power dynamic and let your partner know who's in charge with a collar and leash. Lead them around the room or guide them into new positions.

Silence is golden (or maybe a little bit naughty)

Limit your partner's speech and reinforce your dominant role with a mouth gag. They can also be used to enhance oral sex or during fetish play.

Tug, squeeze, and please

Imagine having your nipples gently teased and tickled with a feather while wearing nipple clamps. The pressure from the clamps will amplify the sensation, making every touch feel even more intense and pleasurable. You can experiment with different types of clamps, from adjustable to weighted, to find the perfect level of sensation that you and your partner enjoy.

Let your fantasies run wild

Immerse yourselves in your fantasies. You might use a French maid costume to play out a submissive/dominant role play scenario where the submissive partner performs various tasks for their dominant partner.

Top BDSM Accessories from NOTI

Indulge in a world of desire and heightened pleasure with the top BDSM accessories from NOTI. These carefully curated items have the power to transform your experiences into something extraordinary.

Obei Entice Me Mulberry Silk Blindfold

Surrender to the tantalizing darkness with the Obei Entice Me Mulberry Silk Blindfold. Let the luxurious silk caress your eyes, heightening your senses as you eagerly await the next touch, whisper, or wicked surprise. This elegant blindfold enhances trust, anticipation, and vulnerability, intensifying the thrill of submission and paving the way for exhilarating sensations.

Obei Guide Me Real Leather Collar and Lead Set

Embrace your role as a dominant with the Obei Guide Me Real Leather Collar and Lead Set. Made from supple leather, this exquisite set symbolizes authority and control, as the collar encircles your partner's neck and the lead rests firmly in your grip. With each tug, you assert your dominance and guide your submissive on a thrilling journey of obedience and surrender.

Obei Nipple Cover

Tease and tantalize your senses with the Obei Nipple Cover. Adorn your peaks with these seductive, heart-shaped covers, their smooth texture and provocative design enhancing sensitivity and inviting gentle caresses or playful nips. These discreet accessories add a touch of elegance to your play, heightening anticipation and leaving your partner yearning for more.

Obei Sensation Nipple Clamp

Explore the exquisite balance between pleasure and pain with the Obei Sensation Nipple Clamp. Adjustable and adorned with delicate charms, these clamps provide a firm yet pleasurable grip, sending thrilling sensations coursing through your body with every movement. As the pressure builds, you'll discover a new level of sensitivity and surrender, amplifying the intensity of your play.

Obei Bound to Explore Silicone Ball Gag

Silence becomes a profound form of communication with the Obei Bound to Explore Silicone Ball Gag. Let the smooth, body-safe silicone ball fill your mouth, muffling your moans and leaving you vulnerable to the desires of your dominant. With your speech restrained, your senses heighten, intensifying the power exchange and allowing you to fully embrace your submissive role.

Obsessive Blindfold Black

Step into a world of mystery and anticipation with the Obsessive Blindfold Black. Crafted from soft, luxurious fabric, this elegant blindfold plunges you into darkness, heightening your sense of touch and amplifying the pleasure of every caress. With your vision obscured, you become more attuned to the seductive whispers and teasing touches that make your playtime unforgettable.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I choose the right BDSM accessory for me?

When choosing the right BDSM accessory, it's important to consider your personal preferences. Think about what you find visually appealing, whether it's something soft and delicate like lace or something bold and edgy like leather. Take into consideration the sensation and texture of the material as well.

You also want to consider the type of fantasy you want to explore. For example, if you're looking to create a dominant-submissive dynamic, a collar and leash could help set the tone. On the other hand, if you're trying to create a more sensual and intimate atmosphere, a silk blindfold could be a great choice.

Ultimately, the right BDSM accessories for you will depend on what you're looking to get out of your BDSM play, so it's important to experiment and see what works best for you and your partner. And why settle for just one? Unleash your imagination and explore a delicious assortment of accessories that will create a wild playground like no other.

Is it safe to use BDSM accessories during sex?

BDSM accessories are safe to use during sex, but it's important to follow safety guidelines and practice responsible use. This means checking the items for any signs of wear and tear, making sure they're clean, and following any instructions or guidelines provided. Additionally, it's important to establish clear communication and boundaries with your partner, and to regularly check in during play to make sure everyone is comfortable and safe. Always prioritize consent and communication when engaging in BDSM activities, including using accessories during sex.

What is the best way to clean and maintain BDSM accessories?

The easiest and most convenient way to clean your BDSM accessories is by using an alcohol-free sex toy cleaner. Just give them a quick spray and wipe, and you're good to go!

If you don’t have a sex toy cleaner at hand, you can also use water and a mild soap. For leather accessories, you can wipe the surface with a soapy rag (damp, not dripping wet). Once all the residue has been removed, rinse the rag and give the surface another wipe until all the soap residue is gone.

For other washable materials, dip the toy in soapy water and scrub the surface gently. Rinse off the soap and hang it to dry. Make sure that your toy is completely dry before putting it back on or storing it in its container.

Are BDSM accessories suitable for beginners?

BDSM accessories can be suitable for beginners, as long as they are used in a safe, consensual, and responsible manner. To start, it's important to communicate openly and establish clear boundaries and expectations with your partner.

Soft and versatile accessories, such as blindfolds, sexy costumes, and collars, are often recommended for newbies. These items allow for simple exploration and can be used in a variety of ways, making them a great starting point for new players. As you and your partner learn more and become more comfortable with BDSM play, you can gradually add more advanced accessories to your collection.

Did you know?

BDSM accessories are actually available in the Philippines — thanks to our sex shop! Here at NOTI.ph, we believe that everyone should have the chance to explore their sexuality without guilt or stigma. That’s why we aim to offer as many adult toys and BDSM products as possible, and that includes these BDSM accessories.

If you want to check out our stock, you can find the famed toys under the “BDSM accessories” catalog on our site.

Every package can be delivered directly to your doorstep. We guarantee discreet packaging without reference to the parcel's contents or our brand name. The only one who will be excited about the parcel is you!