It's time to talk about the one thing that men, women, and everyone in between all have in common: the butt. What makes the booty talk dirty in bed? That could be a lot of things, but one good answer could be the glorious butt plug.

Before we get ourselves some booty, what's a butt plug?

A butt plug – or anal plug – is a sex toy made for anal penetration. It's inserted into the sensitive rectal area for sexual arousal, and it is often short and flared at the base to prevent it from getting stuck inside the anus.

Just picture it as a Pirates of the Carribean expedition in search of booty it's fun, it's naughty, and it has to be well-lubricated for smooth sailing.

While it is similar to the dildo in some ways, an anal plug is a bit different in the sense that it's a smooth, short, and cone-shaped object meant to remain stationary in your backside. No need to thrust back and forth!

What makes the butt plug feel so good? Well, the sexy sensation of “fullness” is what people want and get from this anal toy. So feel free to use it for either solo play or preparation for anal sex. Whatever floats your boat.

If you're unsure of which device you should get, this article is for you. Just continue reading this little guide to butt plugs from NOTI, and we'll promise to walk you through the basics so you’re ready to add a new type of action to your sex life.

The material world of butt plugs

Like most sex toys, anal plugs can be made of various materials, each of which has its own advantages and disadvantages.

Here are your options if you want something that's leaning towards the soft side:

1.  Rubber or jelly: They're the cheapest finds out there, but they're also very porous, which means that they're prone to bacteria growth. Rubber can also trigger those with latex allergies.
2.  Silicone: This could be sterilized and reused, unlike rubber or jelly. Consistency also ranges from soft to hard. Remember never to use a silicone toy with silicone lube.

For women looking for smoother and more rigid options perfect for temperature play:

1. Ceramic: This is relatively light, as well as affordable for a versatile and non-porous variety. It could even look quite vintage.
2. Glass: It's sleek and transparent/translucent, unlike the other types. Glass butt plugs could also come in various unique designs, so that's something to look forward to.
3. Metal: It's the heaviest and priciest, but it's the quickest to warm up and cool down. This also has a sleek and velvety finish, and it's compatible with all types of lubricants.

If it's your first time to use this type of device, try a silicone anal plug for starters. They're non-porous but at the same time more flexible than the rigid varieties. Go ahead and experiment with other materials once you've gotten used to the feel of anal play.

Try these on for size

Size will be a huge factor in the pleasure you'll be getting out of anal play with butt plugs, both in masturbation and sex. This is why you have to ensure that yours won't be too big for you, especially when you're just starting out.

Since anal devices are measured in terms of maximum diameter, we recommend that first-timers get the smallest possible size, the ones that are 1 inch wide or smaller. You can definitely bump up this number as you gain more experience, but don't rush it.

How to play

The anal toy could take some getting used to, particularly if you're inexperienced in terms of anal play. But don't let this intimidate you! Here are some tips that could help you get started on the fun:

CLEAN YOUR BEHIND

Some women tend to be uneasy about the idea of inserting anything up their anus, primarily because they don't think it's hygienic to do so. However, it's possible to keep this area clean and ready for a good time.

As usual, mild soap and water can be used to wash the rim or the outside of your behind. But to get rid of any fecal residue inside, it's best to use a clean and wet finger sans soap.

You can also opt to buy a water enema kit from the nearest pharmacy if you want to be thorough, but this isn't a necessary step.

USE LUBRICANT

Don't be shy about using a generous amount of lube when you're involving your backside in any form of sexual activity. That's because the anus doesn't self-lubricate the way the vagina does when aroused.

A lot of women say they prefer silicone-based lube for anal sex because it's slicker and does not turn sticky when it dries up. However, that can't be used with silicone butt plugs, so be sure to check the label beforehand.

On the other hand, water-based lubes are compatible with all materials, though they have to be reapplied more often, aside from how they could leave some residue behind.

GET CREATIVE

After making sure that your device is well-lubricated, all that's left is inserting it into your anus. You might think it's a bit tricky, but not to worry! There are a lot of positions that would make this easy: doggy-style, standing up, lying on your side, or squatting. Thanks to the design with the flared base and/or a little handle, inserting and removing anal sex toys is easy.

You can definitely play around with this anal toy by yourself at first to explore your sexual preferences freely. But if you're doing this with your partner, constantly check if they're comfortable with the arrangement. Consent is key!

Beyond the basics

We've been talking about the basic type of butt plugs and how to use them so far. Getting bored of playing it safe? We got you covered too. Here are just a few of the options if you're feeling more adventurous and want to upgrade from a beginner butt plug:

VIBRATING BUTT PLUG

What could possibly be more exciting than the classic butt plug? A butt plug and a vibrators">vibrator rolled into one, of course! Vibrating plugs can enhance your sensation of "fullness" and introduce you to a whole new world of anal stimulation. Enjoy both the fullness and the good vibes of an anal vibrator to kick it up a notch. Of course, vibrating butt plugs come in different sizes as well, so if you're used to a classic butt plug in a bigger size, it might be a good idea to start small when opting for an anal vibrator

Some vibrating plugs could even come with a remote control, which means that you can let your partner call the shots while you're using it, even in public. Now that's real quality sexy time for advanced users.

FETISH BUTT PLUG

If wet n' wild is more of your style, then this could be just what you're looking for. Insert this novelty into your backside to summon your spirit animal whether it be a cute cat, a fluffy rabbit, or a sly fox.

A tail plug is perfect for women who are into roleplaying or even BDSM. Take note, however, that fetish butt plugs such as tail butt plugs might be more difficult to clean since you'd have to treat the animal tails with special care. Though you might like dirty bunny tails or fox tails, not all types of dirty are tempting or hygienic, so be attentive and make sure that you clean it properly.

INFLATABLE BUTT PLUG

Nothing says extreme like a butt plug that expands once it's gotten through your backdoor. An inflatable plug increases in size thanks to a hand pump, with a valve to quickly deflate it when necessary.

ANAL BEAD

Anal beads like pearls on a string will leave you in awe. Small and/or bigger bulbs put together in a satisfying tower. Choose a model with a vibrating base for a smooth and sensual ride.

You might want to start with a silicone anal bead as it's more flexible. Later on, you can go for a larger size with more beads on a longer device, and maybe you want to replace the silicone anal bead with, for example, metal or glass plugs.

If you want even more action and want to play by the more the merrier, why not combine the anal stimulation with vaginal penetration from another sex toy or your partner? Different types of stimulation inside your body could very well be the perfect trick for you. Take your time, experiment, and increase your sexual pleasure!

Ready to buy your very own butt plug? No need to hesitate, darling. There's no shame in giving into your deepest desires. After all, there's nothing sexier than an empowered woman who knows what she wants and goes for it.

NOTI is an online sex shop. We offer a wide range of sex toys, including anal sex toys, for women and couples to light up their sex life. We value your privacy above all, especially when it comes to shipping. With us, you don't have to worry about your security. Rest assured that we'll handle your personal information with the utmost discretion. Just enjoy yourself, and leave the rest to us!

Frequently asked questions (FAQs)

WHAT ARE BUTT PLUGS?

Here we have to do with sex toys with a flared base made for insertion in the anal canal. They come in a variety of sizes and materials to ensure that you can get a model providing you with the perfect anal stimulation and maximum pleasure.

WHAT TYPES ARE THERE?

First of all, these intrigueing butt toys can be sorted by material, for example silicone plugs or steel butt plugs. Silicone makes more flexible and smooth plugs, which is good for beginners. On the other hand, a butt plug material such as glass or steel can give a different kind of stimulation.

Secondly, you can sort after size. If you're new to activities in the anal canal, go for a mini butt plug to avoid pain and discomfort. When you're used to the feeling, you can try upgrading to a larger size. Go from a mini or small to a medium size to make sure that you and your body can keep up.

WHAT'S THE BEST TYPE OF BEGINNER PLUGS?

While there is no definitive best butt plug for beginners, we recommend that you start with a silicone plug, especially if you've never tried anal sex before. Also, start with the smallest size possible, preferably one that's smaller than 1 inch in diameter. This could help you get used to the sensation without overwhelming you.

WHAT SHOULD I KNOW BEFORE PURCHASING A BUTT PLUG?

The most important thing is to go slow! Start with a small model, especially if you're all new to anal penetration. Take your time and don't put pressure on yourself.

Also, you should look for a non-porous material such as silicone or steel to reduce the risk of bacteria growth.

Remember lots of lube, and if you're using it as part of your sex life with another person, be extra attentive to make sure that you're both comfortable at all times so you get a good experience as partners.

CAN BUTT PLUGS BE USED FOR MORE THAN ANAL SEX PREPARATION?

Of course! You don't need a male partner in order to indulge in the “fullness” that butt plugs have to offer. Feel free to use your butt plug while you're masturbating alone. Butt play and anal training is pleasurable in many situations, and there's no such thing as too much self-love, after all.

DO I NEED LUBRICANT TO USE MY BUTT PLUG?

Lubricants are an absolute must for any form of anal play. The rectum doesn't produce its own lubrication the way your vagina does when things are getting hot and heavy. That's why you need to drizzle a lot of lube to enjoy yourself. Don't use silicone-based lubricants with silicone toys!

SHOULD I COVER MY BUTT PLUG WITH A CONDOM?

Condoms can be used to avoid direct contact between you and your butt plug. This helps in extending the lifespan of your sex toy and making cleanup easier. Never use condoms coated with silicone-based lubes if you're using a silicone butt plug.

HOW DO I CLEAN MY BUTT PLUG?

To clean your butt plug after getting down and dirty, it's best to stick with sex toy cleaners that are specially formulated for your toys. The manual may contain special instructions to go about this. Don't boil or use diluted bleach, both of which may damage your toy!

HOW DO I CLEAN MY BUTT BEFORE USING MY BUTT PLUG?

Soap and water can be used to wash the outside of your derrière. But to clean the inside, it's best to use a clean and wet finger sans soap. You can also use a water enema kit if you want to be thorough, but this isn't necessary.

WHERE TO BUY A BUTT PLUG?

At NOTI we have a broad selection of toys for sexual pleasure in the anal canal. Our online sex shop is here to inspire and incite women to explore their sexuality and broaden their horizon. Use our products for self care or with one or more partners. Whatever you prefer.

CAN A BUTT PLUG GET LOST OR STUCK INSIDE YOU?

Anal plugs are made for use in your behind. Despite all the stories and rumors about people being found with all sorts of stoppers inside them, this is very unlikely to happen. A butt plug has a flared base, which keeps it anchored firmly outside of your body so it won't get neither lost nor stuck inside your body.