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Surrender to your desires with a collar.
Embrace your wilder side with one of the most stylish symbols in a BDSM relationship.
You gently wrap the collar around your partner's delicate neck, the leather giving the skin a slight squeeze. You watch as your partner closes their eyes, giving up all control to you. And as you place that lock, sealing your commitment to one another, all you hear is, "Yours".
Collars can have a variety of meanings. It can show ownership, subservience, or commitment. But they can also be just a little something special to add some heat to your kinky playtime.
What is a BDSM collar?
A collar, in BDSM, is a piece of jewelry that is worn about the neck, like a choker or a necklace. They used to typically come in the form of a thick band of PVC or leather with an O or D ring at the front. This accessory is worn choker-style and typically comes with a lock that only the dominant partner gets to put on or remove from the neck of the sub. It can also be paired with a leash to make a lead set, which is commonly used by partners engaging in animal roleplay.
Nowadays, collars come in a variety of looks ranging from discreet necklaces and simple chains to leather chokers with spikes. Someone around you might even be wearing this secret BDSM symbol without you knowing.
What does putting on a collar mean?
The symbolism of the collar is highly debated. Some people see it to be a big thing, while others see it as just an accessory to make one look more appealing. Putting one on can have different meanings, and it's solely up to you to decide what it means. Check out these common symbolic definitions attached to this BDSM equipment, and you might find one that lines up with your desires.
IT CAN BE A SYMBOL OF POSSESSION OR OWNERSHIP
For some partners, it is merely a sign of a BDSM relationship. And in that relationship, it is usually the submissive that dons it. However, the most common meaning is ownership. Putting a collar on a person means the wearer is bound to obey anything and everything that the master orders. Moreover, they are used to signal to others that the wearer is already "owned" and cannot engage without the permission of their doms. This means you shouldn't interact with the wearer unless you are allowed by their owner to do so.
Some view the collar as something close to a wedding or engagement ring. These neck bands are not just worn during events but on a daily basis. It is a sign of their commitment to each other. In such cases, the dominant and the submissive go through a collaring ceremony.
IT CAN BE A PART OF THE ROLE PLAY
For some, bringing out this toy is the sign that role play is about to begin. It's part of the fantasy. For example, some BDSM practitioners enjoy animal play. This is when the dom plays the role of the master, and the sub plays the part of the pet, like a cat or a dog. The sub might go down on all fours and obey the master's commands. Some other sensual activities include licking, biting, humping, etc. In these situations, the choker is usually inscribed with the sub's special pet name.
IT CAN BE A PERSONAL STATEMENT
Finally, the collar can merely be a personal statement. It may be meant to tell others that you are into the BDSM lifestyle. Or it could be something you wear to feel desirable. Stunning ones that adorn the neck pull attention toward that beautiful part of your body, so you may want to make the most of that attention.
Wearing a discreet collar can also give you that feeling of keeping a secret from others. Being able to put it on and go about your day without anybody being the wiser can give you a sense of thrill.
What are the different levels of collars?
If you want to level-up your kinky play or get deeper into the BDSM lifestyle, knowing the different levels of collars may be beneficial. This way, you get to see what you're in for should you and your partner desire to go through the full experience.
CONSIDERATION COLLAR
Wearing this is considered as the first stage of the collaring experience. Similar in purpose as a promise ring, this one is given to the sub as a sign that the dom is thinking of entering into a serious relationship with them. If you want to go down the traditional route, the consideration collar is often colored blue.
TRAINING COLLAR
This is used when submissives begin their training under their doms. It is worn for the entire duration of this "engagement" period and will be replaced when the sub satisfactorily completes their preparation. It is at this point when the dom and the sub communicate their needs and desires to find out if they are the right fit for each other. The traditional training collar comes in black or red.
PROTECTION COLLAR
This is given by the dom once the partners agree to entering into a long-term relationship contract. It is a sign to others that the sub is owned and is now under the protection of the dom. Traditionally, this particular accessory contains the initials of the dom along with a small letter P.
PERMANENT COLLAR
The formal or permanent collar is the highest level that a submissive can earn although it is not necessarily a part of the formal collaring level. It is given when the dom deems that the sub has proven commitment to the relationship. It symbolizes the dominant's promise to care and be responsible for the sub permanently. In turn, the submissive promises absolute submission to the dom. This comes with a locking mechanism with a key that only the dominant holds.
How do I choose a collar?
Collars, just like any other accessory, come in many forms, materials, colors, and sizes. That's what makes choosing one very difficult. However, there are some factors to consider for you to narrow down your choices.
MATERIAL
Leather collars are quite popular. They look badass and are very durable. Plus, some people really get turned on by its scent. However, if you are going to wear it regularly, it is good to know that this material is difficult to clean especially if you sweat on it. Additionally, leather requires proper storage otherwise, it can crease.
The same is true for toys made of suede, velvet, or felt. These materials look great against the delicate skin of the neck, but another downside is that these materials can easily rip.
Neoprene is the way to go if you are going to engage in wild activities that will have you sweating a lot. It is waterproof and easy to clean.
SIZE
Choose one that fits comfortably around the wearer's neck. Do not get a neck band that pinches or rubs the skin or causes you to choke. While breath-play can be a thrilling experience, please only do autoerotic asphyxiation during a short time in a specific play session. Wearing a collar that restricts circulation and breathing for too long can cause serious injury.
Besides the fit, you should also consider the width of the collar. Extremely tall ones that cover most of the neck are called "posture collars". This type is designed to keep the wearer looking forward, allowing for good posture. It is typically meant to be worn only during play sessions because it can get uncomfortable.
STYLE
Collars come in a wide variety of styles. While most are chosen based on the preference of the doms, some consider the taste of the sub in choosing this toy. Here are a few of the popular styles:
- Day collar – elegantly-designed and made for wearing discreetly in public. It can have a subtle appearance with a symbol that can remain a secret between the wearer and the partner.
- Turian collar – a simple accessory that either has a buckle where a lock can be added or has a built-in locking mechanism.
- Pet collar – used mostly during play or kink sessions. Most are made of leather. Some are adorned with studs or spikes. Others can even have ruffles or jewels on them.
- Wolf collar – has studs or spikes on them. Originally, these have been used to protect dogs against wolves. It's meant to be decorative and looks extremely badass coupled with a latex bodysuit.
Top collars from NOTI
Would you like to surrender your desires with this BDSM icon? If yes, then you might want to check out the following collars available in our shop.
OBEI BOUND TO SEDUCE
The Obei Bound to Seduce is an adjustable buckle collar and lead set that can help you and your partner fulfill your sexiest fantasies.
The collar is made from high-quality authentic leather with a 114 cm metal chain. The material is firm but supple to the touch. The strong chain is connected to a leather wrist loop, making it easier for the master to lead their sub during playtime.
OBEI BOUND TO TEASE
The Obei Bound to Tease is another adjustable buckle collar and lead set, perfect for animal roleplay. The collar for this set is a little taller than the one in Bound to Seduce, wide enough to restrict movement a little more effectively.
OBEI BOUND TO EXPLORE
The Obei Bound to Explore Leather Collar and Lead Set features an adjustable synthetic leather collar with stunning gold embellishments. The chain is also gold and comes at 120cm long, making it easier to lead the sub around and allowing for more space to maneuver.
OBEI REAL LEATHER COLLAR
If you are looking for something that looks dainty and can be worn with your regular clothes, the Obei Real Leather Collar is something you need to check out. It is made of real leather, so it is very soft but durable. It is only 60mm wide, so it is discreet enough to wear as an everyday accessory. This one comes with a few belt holes allowing you to adjust the collar for the perfect fit.
OBEI REAL LEATHER COLLAR AND LEAD SET
The Obei Real Leather Collar and Lead Set features a simple and easy-to-use leather collar with a D-ring. Adjustable and portable, it comes with a removable 80cm leash that's just long enough to let the sub move around with ease but still afford the dom sufficient amount of control. Made with real leather, this will provide the utmost comfort and last for years of kinky pleasure.
OBEI LEAD ME REAL LEATHER COLLAR AND LEAD SET
The Obei Lead Me Real Leather Collar and Lead Set features a collar with a five-hole buckle and a leash with a soft leather wrist loop. The gold chain is 120 cm long, affording the dom and sub more space to play. This set has your comfort in mind, so you can get down and kinky without any problem.
OBEI GUIDE ME REAL LEATHER COLLAR AND LEAD SET
There's really something so stunning about red and black when it comes to leather. The Obei Guide Me is definitely one beautiful set. The leather on the collar and wrist loop feels so soft, and the metal lead is made of durable, gold-colored metal, so this accessory is not just aesthetically pleasing but will also last you a long time.
Frequently Asked Questions
DOES A COLLAR ALWAYS HAVE TO MEAN SOMETHING?
For some individuals, wearing a collar is a lifetime commitment. It can serve as a sign of permanent ownership and a signal to others that the wearer is already taken and must be left alone (unless when the dom permits interaction). However, not everybody sees this BDSM toy as such. For some, it's just a tool. It can be a place where they can clip the restrained hands so the wearer will be immobilized. For others, it can serve as nothing more than a pretty accessory.
So no, a collar doesn't have to have any deep meaning for you to wear it. If it's something that you want to put on simply because you think it completes your outfit, please do so. If you and your partner want to use it as a symbol of your devotion to each other, then that's amazing, too.
DO I NEED TO MEASURE THE SUB'S NECK BEFORE BUYING A COLLAR?
Yes. Getting one that's too short may cause discomfort and injury to the wearer. Get a measuring tape and place it around the neck where the collar should sit. Do not squeeze the chin down or crane the neck out to get an accurate measurement. It is best to get an adjustable choker like the ones in our recommendations list, so you can make sure that the fit is perfect.
HOW DO I CARE FOR AND MAINTAIN A COLLAR?
For leather ones, you can wipe the surface with a soapy rag (damp, not dripping wet). Once all the residue has been removed, rinse the rag and give the surface another wipe until all the soap residue is gone. For other washable materials, dip the toy in soapy water and scrub the surface gently. Rinse off the soap and hang it to dry. Make sure that your toy is completely dry before putting it back on or storing it in its container.
Did you know?
Collars are actually available in the Philippines — thanks to our sex shop! Here at NOTI.ph, we believe that everyone should have the chance to explore their sexuality without guilt or stigma. That's why we aim to offer as many adult toys and BDSM equipment as possible, and that includes these BDSM icons.
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